My mini me
Blue water for the Royals
Yep, that’s me!
Changed from blonde to red hair
Baby brother and sister in law
He’s so precious!
Oldest sister – 6 years younger
First cold day of the year
I have been asked twice in the past 2 days why I haven’t posted lately. HERE I AM!
So EX number 1 is helping me immensely right now. After finding my bio-mom, now I want to know the bio-dad. My aunt said she knows who he is but does not remember his name and has never taken the time to help me find out. Well! Ex number 1 has siblings that went to school with my mother and her beau. HAH! He will be found! I just hope he’s a better person than she was. Not speaking ill of the dead, just saying that her kids are all kinds of f’ed up because of her choices! I’m glad I went through the drug stage and the “everything I can do that’s bad” stages early in life and then quit before I had my son. I don’t ever like seeing kids raised that way!
EX number 2 is still on the couch, still paying child support, and still paying me weekly for the honor of staying on my couch. Little Man has finally realized that his Dad is not going anywhere and getting used to him. FINALLY! Things are tight because of bills I’m paying off but that’s okay. We will get it done. Shopping at Costco and WalMart helps even though I hate Wally World, it saves money over regular grocery stores.
Work is, well, who knows. I’m on the verge of getting fired daily. I swear, even if I did, I think I would be happier. Less stress (work wise at least), bills harder to pay though. But then again, I could do what every non American seems to do – go to the government! If it happens while our Pres is still in office, even better! Isn’t he all about the single parents help? I may find out!
I haven’t lost any more weight…I’m kinda stuck at 205. Nothing wrong with that though! Especially since where I started in 1997! But I’m trying to do better, drink less soda, eat less junk, it’s hard! I’ll get it eventually though.
Arizona and I will NOT be getting together, like, ever. He says “maybe” and that’s not an answer. I do not want to live there and he doesn’t want to live here and I don’t want to leave my parents in their elderly years so we are at a stand point and decided to just stay friends. Yes, I know it sucks, but better to find out now than to spend a ton of money to go on vacation with him and THEN decide to “just be friends”. :) So I made an account on POF. If you don’t know what that is, it is a free dating website called Plenty of Fish. Let me tell you though. Every single male that has sent me a message has NOT been my type AT ALL. I do not date black men because of a personal experience in college that I do not care to remember, let alone discuss. I do not date morbidly obese men because I remember where I came from and I know they could take better care of themselves and just choose not to. I like to hike, bike, swim outdoors, and indoors, go to movies or go out to dinner but not all the time! SO…I tried talking to this one guy but I can’t get past his face. It just scares me. Then all the ghetto guys sending me messages…uh NO! We shall see if that goes anywhere. I just may never date until Little Man is all grown up. I would actually be okay with that seeing that EX number 2 is in my house. How does THAT look to any other guy??? Weird, that’s how! Even if it is platonic, I doubt they would believe that.
I’ve been hanging out with my brother and his family more and I love it. They came and spent the weekend at my place. 8 people in a 700 sq ft one bedroom condo…it was tight!!! Plus all 8 people sharing ONE bathroom??? OMG…never again. I love them though. That’s why his wife and I are having a girls night on Friday. EX and Little Man are going on a Scout’s campout so she and I will have my house all to ourselves to do whatever we want. I can’t wait! I’m trying to get her to do my plan too. Yeah, she’s a little heavy, but she just had a kid 7 months ago and she’s NOT one of the Kardashian’s! They are getting their own place next week so we will all be able to hang out there. I really do not like my sisters much though. All druggies, liars, and probably thieves as well. I don’t want to find out. I actually told my youngest sister that I do not want to see her since she stole from me. The oldest sister of mine lives 12 hours from me (still in Texas) so I doubt that I’ll ever meet her. She looks the most like me too. Pictures below.
Little Man has asked for a 3DS AND an iPad mini for Christmas. That kid, man! I got the DS covered so my parents said they would cover the iPad. So I made a deal with Little Man. I told him how much smaller the mini is and he wants my regular iPad and I get the new one! YAY!
Halloween pictures, brother and family photos, my grand mothers pictures that I found are shown. Have a great day!